MEA CULPA: offers insights into the challenges faced by African American women
Join me as I share my thoughts on the movie "MEA CULPA". Every lady I've known has always remarked that Tyler Perry's movies often portray women as being lost in the end. However, I'm sorry to disappoint anyone expecting such a review from me regarding this film. Instead, I'd like to shed some light on the common experiences faced by many African American women. Whether you're a Nigerian lady living in America or back home but influenced by Western culture, this movie is worth watching. It serves as a reminder to be cautious of who you trust, to always follow your instincts, and to avoid losing yourself in pursuit of pleasing a man. It emphasizes the importance of having someone outside your circle of friends who knows your movements. Additionally, it highlights the fact that not all couples therapy is genuine; often, both partners are present to exploit each other's truths and lies. This lack of authenticity can hinder the growth of marriages and relationships, even if counselling is sought. I invite you to share your perspectives on the movie in this thread.
Join me in discussing "MEA CULPA". While Tyler Perry's movies often depict women as losing themselves, this film offers insights into the challenges faced by African American women. It urges caution in trusting others, emphasizes following instincts, and warns against losing oneself for a partner. It's a reminder to have a confidant outside of friend circles and highlights the pitfalls of couples therapy. Share your thoughts on this thread.
Before the movie was released a few days ago, there was a lot of talk, with people almost trolling Kelly Rowland. However, in this review, I'm focusing on the main role and the lessons ladies can learn from it. From the 59th second till the end, one thing stands out: how society looks at and treats every black woman in all walks of life. While many may say she lost, have you considered that her loss could be an eye-opener for viewers? It serves as a reminder to not fall victim to circumstances because 90% of African American women have someone like Kal and Zyair Malloy in their lives, waiting for the perfect moment to take advantage of them. So, to every lady out there, make sure you understand the motives to avoid ending up losing. To that Nigeria lady reading this you are not exempt also stay Woke.
Make sure you follow the story very closely; everything will make sense in the end. From Mea Maddy to Charlise connected to Zyair involving Kal, his senior brother, and even their mom, lying using Chemo as an excuse to force Mea when everything was already pre-planned just because of power. So many discussions for ladies to sit and share their views and not be carried away by the same old notion about Tyler Perry movies. What everybody needs to know is that Kelly Rowland played that role so well, you will be carried away, forgetting that most ladies out there are going through this on a daily basis. They can't talk for fear of not knowing who to trust. You can see Mea has no one to share her deep thoughts with; no father, brother, or relative – none was showcased except Jimmy, who messed things up but later became the one to help every lady needs in their life.
In my final scene, I'll take 30 minutes to address all the ladies out there: follow your gut and stop ignoring the red flags. As a black African race, we all need to do better. Ladies, share your pain with friends you trust. Zyair was lucky to have someone like Mea who still believes in the good ways. To all the guys trying to fulfil their sexual fantasies, remember, you might not be as lucky as him in the real world. It's just a movie, and many people will lose track of the lesson and focus on the characters, not the result. One more thing: the two sex scenes of Mea with Kal and Mea with Zyair as a lady, which one would you prefer? And as a man, which one do you think you would enjoy?
I rate the movie 7/10. Nothing indicates a true-life story, so I believe the writer and producer could have chosen a better ending.
